My mother was born October 15, 1920 in Lehi Utah and died January 3, 2000 in West Jordan Utah. My mother did not lead a charmed life. She buried two husbands Donald C. Newman and Fred D. Palfreyman. She married Fred on June 6th 1958. Fred died from cancer on October 28 1974. After eleven years of being single she married Howard Barben on January 12, 1985.